oh my country

i have come to a conclusion that a great civilization is not conquered from without until it has destroyed itself from within. in the case of my country Nigeria, the so called leaders have come to a point where they don’t know more than to destroy the country for their selfish reasons.

Nigeria as a country was doing well in the past with money made from the agricultural sector. then came the discovery of oil, shortly after that the oil wind fall. every human in their right senses would say the oil discovery is the begin of a greater Nigeria that is putting the agriculture and oil money together to build a greater Nigeria. that has not been the case. things have moved from bad to worse.

the discovery of oil just brought out the greed and selfish way or our leaders; embezzlement, hunger for power all the evil money attracts.

it is so sad to say that until this day in my country Nigeria, we still don’t have constant light, good road and above all good infrastructure. to top it all up the agricultural sector can be said to be forgotten or dead, all because our leaders prefer to embezzle oil money, which is quick to steal and involves more millions.

what ever happened to agriculture in Nigeria!? all the livestock farming, fisheries, vegetables and so on. everyone is turning a blind eye to all that. the only thing i hear in Nigeria nowadays is barrels of oil, which might soon come to a an end.

all we citizens of Nigeria ask is for the leaders to provide us, the citizens with basic amenities, e.g good standard of living, constant light, because we are amongst the few countries left with no constant power supple, and good roads. minimum wage is nothing to write home about. all this leaders travel overseas and they see how things are done, but refuse to upgrade the standards in their country. how sad is that. then they open their mouth and say all Nigerians staying overseas should come back home. come back home to do what?

now they ask us to vote during the elections; for what and for who? they want us to vote for another joker who will waste our time for another 4 years. i suggest Nigerian constitution should change for now. any president elect should be given a time frame of 3 year and he should state just one thing he plans to do for the country. we are tired of reading and listen to long list of promises. after his 3 years, he should be assessed, if nothing done he should be kicked out with no benefits and a new person should take his seat.

In my opinion Nigerian government is a joke.

nija

Make it work !!!

       SHE cares and worries about you, cooks, cleans after you. to top it all up she carried your kid for 9months also worrying and care for the kid until adulthood. most of them help their men in even making critical decisions in and around their life

     On the other hand woman should know that men in general no matter the age or class have a little boyish tendencies in them one way or another. allow them to be boys every ones in a while. most men love their wives, but women should also understand that some men find it hard to say they love you. Women should also understand that men do so things for no reason. they also say things the way they see it with considering in between the lines. sometime men don’t show their feeling because they don’t want u to see it as a weakness on their part. they want to be seen as solid.

      It is hard to understand women everybody know that even the women don’t really know what they want. i have come to understand in my many years of researching them that, most of them want almost the same things.

i’ll give you some example:

  • they want you to listen when they talk
  • they want to be able to brag about their man without fear of him cheating on her
  • they want to be pampered and hear you say the words “i love you” with passion and tenderness
  • they want you to show appreciation for what they have done no matter how small
  • they want you to hold their hand in public to show you are proud of they
  • they would also love for you to do things around the house and no sit on your ass all day playing computer games or using your gadgets

I understand the fact that it is not easy , the change from being single to being in a relationship or marriage. anyway you see it, it is an upgrade of every part of your life. you have to accept the upgrade for the betterment of yourself.

respect and understanding is key to a successful union. most of all, love and the willingness to want to wake up beside the one you love.

N:B

Always remind yourself, she is boss even thou you brings bacon to the table.

like you respect your mother, respect women.Bsv9s_cCIAEnbh2

Life is love

Life has been said to have various meanings

one of which states: The condition that distinguishes animals and plants from inorganic matter, including the capacity for growth, reproduction, functional activity, and continual change preceding death.

in my opinion life is love.

life itself is in existence because of the amount of love in circulation. love towards living and non living, organic and inorganic. life has come to change due to the amount for changes in human morals and behavior. life tends to be harder than what the creator designed it to be, all because of greed, hate and inhuman behaviors. the amount of people looking for fortune, fear and respect have made life a crazy place to be in. what is the use of fame, power and respect when you still remain small in the eyes of the creator. we are only temporary here on earth for we all will return to where we came from.

the amount of hate in humans, makes me wonder what the plan is. we are suppose to love each other in the way we want to be loved. i have seen and hear people hate others for baseless reasons such as color, race, and religion.

color in skin is determined by the amount of melanin pigments the skin can produce. its not anyone’s fault  if your skin produces more or less. that is determined by the most high. in the aspect of religion, i would say everyone has a right to believe what they want, provided it works for them. just to be clear all the gods and idols people worship are just a medium to the most high God. in other words we all worship the same God but in different ways. i don’t think that is enough to hate or kill a human. if we start to extend this love to every tom, dick and harry i believe we will might be able to witness world peace in our time.

in my opinion ” our generation might never witness world peace” but we can pave the way so t6he youth can enjoy it.

lets make the world a better place.

Love and life
Love and life

whats the truth

Life!!!

life is like examination report card, which carries only your name. not even your parents or friends names appear on it. that just goes to show you are on your own. the same thing applies to life. you are on your own. some people advise you on things they cant to trying to mislead you. some guild you on the right path. it is always left to you to chose what works for you. when you have money to throw around, you have friends all over the world. the moment you go broke, you are left with two types of friends i.e real / true friends and friends that think you have more money stashed somewhere. i know life can be hard but the true is life is simple or better still, is suppose to be simple. it all depends on how you go about it. somethings in life are designed to make life even harder e.g money , power and respect. only if you look at life from an humble point of view, then u will understand that all those things don’t really matter. when we pass away, we most leave all those things behind. all we take is our character which will be assessed by the all might. all the power, respect and money dies with us. we most always leave the best life possible so we can enjoy the afterlife 100%. life! a lot of questions unanswered. we just have to play our role, respect and follow the path to light.

believe it or not, the earth and the people on it where created by someone. we just didn’t appear here. so lets follow his way and do what is right because he is the all mighty. the father of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. the father of Jesus.

He is the way, the truth and the light.

God bless us all